{"id":1109,"date":"2026-04-17T21:44:18","date_gmt":"2026-04-17T18:44:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/miristoriy.ru\/?p=1109"},"modified":"2026-04-19T20:16:11","modified_gmt":"2026-04-19T17:16:11","slug":"samye-glupye-ucheniki-h%c9%99yat-hekay%c9%99l%c9%99ri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/miristoriy.ru\/az\/samye-glupye-ucheniki-h%c9%99yat-hekay%c9%99l%c9%99ri\/","title":{"rendered":"U\u015faqlar\u0131n dediyi \u0259n maraql\u0131 v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc s\u00f6zl\u0259r"},"content":{"rendered":"
U\u015faqlar\u0131n dediyi sad\u0259, amma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc s\u00f6zl\u0259r b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259yat d\u0259rsi olur. M\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin real hekay\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 t\u0259sirli anlar bu yaz\u0131da.<\/span><\/pre>\n
\"m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259<\/p>\n
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B\u0259z\u0259n pis davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n arxas\u0131nda bizim f\u0259rq etm\u0259diyimiz bir \u015fey gizl\u0259nir.<\/span><\/pre>\n<\/div>\n
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\ud83d\udc94 Sad\u0259c\u0259 diqq\u0259t ist\u0259yirdi<\/h4>\n
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Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il \u0259vv\u0259l, m\u0259n be\u015finci sinifd\u0259 d\u0259rs dey\u0259nd\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 \u00e7ox z\u0259if oxuyan v\u0259 tez-tez \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc pis aparan bir \u015fagirdim var idi. S\u0259h\u0259r yem\u0259yind\u0259n sonra m\u0259niml\u0259 qab-qacaq yuma\u011f\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutan \u201cc\u0259zalar\u0131ndan\u201d birind\u0259 ondan niy\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 problem yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 soru\u015fdum.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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O\u011flan etiraf etdi ki, o, sad\u0259c\u0259 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr ki, \u0259g\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc pis aparsa, m\u0259niml\u0259 1:1 daha \u00e7ox vaxt ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 h\u0259yatdan, hobbil\u0259rind\u0259n v\u0259 s. haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015fmaq imkan\u0131m\u0131z olacaq.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Sonradan \u00f6yr\u0259ndim ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n atas\u0131 dem\u0259k olar ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc h\u0259bsxanada ke\u00e7irib.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Bel\u0259likl\u0259, sinifd\u0259ki \"\u0259n axmaq\" v\u0259 \u0259n ita\u0259tsiz u\u015faq \u0259slind\u0259 sistemd\u0259n sad\u0259c\u0259 istifad\u0259 edirdi. \u018fslind\u0259, ona sad\u0259c\u0259 bir ki\u015fi rol modeli laz\u0131m idi.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Sonra ona dedim ki, m\u0259niml\u0259 vaxt ke\u00e7irm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259li deyil. Sad\u0259c\u0259 m\u0259nd\u0259n ona \u0259lav\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r verm\u0259mi xahi\u015f ed\u0259 bil\u0259rdi. Bundan sonra o (\u0259sas\u0259n) \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc daha yax\u015f\u0131 apard\u0131.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Bu o\u011flan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dar\u0131x\u0131ram.<\/p>\n
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\"u\u015faq<\/h4>\n
\ud83d\ude33 B\u00fct\u00fcn ili s\u0259hv dil \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259kl\u0259 ke\u00e7irdi.<\/h4>\n
M\u0259n ingilis dilini xarici dil kimi \u00f6yr\u0259dir\u0259m v\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rimd\u0259n biri b\u00fct\u00fcn il d\u0259rs\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259mi\u015fdi. N\u0259hay\u0259t, o g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 ona esse tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131 verdim. O, bunu alman dilind\u0259 birc\u0259 s\u0259hv\u0259 yol verm\u0259d\u0259n yaz\u0131b. O\u011flan el\u0259 bilirdi ki, alman dilini \u00f6yr\u0259nirik. O, b\u00fct\u00fcn il alman dilini \u00f6yr\u0259nirdi v\u0259 yaln\u0131z d\u0259rs\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 bizim ingilis dilini \u00f6yr\u0259ndiyimizi anlad\u0131. Bu h\u0259m \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00e7ox axmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
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\ud83d\ude05 \"\u00c7\u0131x\u0131\u015f zaman\u0131 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r adam\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc bilirsinizmi?\"<\/h4>\n
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Natiqlikd\u0259n d\u0259rs deyirdim. \u018fsas\u0259n 9-cu sinif \u015fagirdl\u0259rim var idi. Onlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131 ilk b\u00f6y\u00fck nitqind\u0259n \u00e7ox \u0259s\u0259bi idil\u0259r v\u0259 m\u0259n \u201cs\u00f6z verir\u0259m, s\u00f6z vers\u0259niz, sizi he\u00e7 kim \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259z\u201d dey\u0259r\u0259k onlar\u0131 sakitl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Sonra bir u\u015faq q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rd\u0131 ki, B\u0130L\u0130RS\u0130N\u0130Z TAR\u0130XD\u018f NE\u00c7\u018f \u0130NSAN \u00c7IXI\u015e DEY\u018fK\u018fN \u00d6L\u00dcB???<\/p>\n
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\"Valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 eyni \u015feyi edirl\u0259r.\"<\/h4>\n
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O\u011flan axmaq deyildi, amma dedikl\u0259rinin \u00e7oxu axmaq idi. Bu da ona g\u00f6r\u0259dir ki, o, sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131 v\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259 etm\u0259yi sevirdi.<\/p>\n
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D\u0259rsl\u0259rin c\u0259mi yeddi saat olmas\u0131na baxmayaraq, u\u015faq h\u0259r g\u00fcn m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 11 saat vaxt ke\u00e7irir. M\u0259kt\u0259b \u00f6z\u0259l idi v\u0259 \u0259g\u0259r valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 erk\u0259n buraxmal\u0131 v\u0259 ya gec g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259li olsalar, onlar\u0131n se\u00e7imi var idi. Bu o\u011flan\u0131n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 valideynl\u0259r bu f\u00fcrs\u0259td\u0259n istifad\u0259 edibl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Bir g\u00fcn bu t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 dedi ki, o, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 bir it almaq ist\u0259yir, lakin valideynl\u0259ri buna qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rd\u0131lar, \u00e7\u00fcnki \u00e7ox vaxt evd\u0259 ona baxacaq kims\u0259 olmazd\u0131. S\u00f6hb\u0259timiz bel\u0259 davam etdi.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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M\u0259n: M\u0259ntiqlidir. Kuklalar v\u0259 h\u0259tta yetkin itl\u0259r \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Onlar\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc evd\u0259 t\u0259k buraxmaq yax\u015f\u0131 olmazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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O\u011flan: Yax\u015f\u0131, iti s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa apara bil\u0259rik.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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M\u0259n: H\u0259r g\u00fcn? \u018fg\u0259r kims\u0259 h\u0259r g\u00fcn itiniz\u0259 8 saat vaxt s\u0259rf edirs\u0259, o sizin itinizdirmi?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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O: Yax\u015f\u0131, valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 eyni \u015feyi edirl\u0259r!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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N\u0259 ac\u0131 h\u0259qiq\u0259tdir. Bu s\u00f6hb\u0259t ill\u0259r boyu beynimd\u0259 canlan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n
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\ud83d\udc94 \"Atam\u0131 he\u00e7 g\u00f6rm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m\"<\/h4>\n
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\u2026Bir d\u0259f\u0259 naharda idim v\u0259 orta m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n bir o\u011flan zarafatla m\u0259n\u0259 dedi: \u201cC\u0259nab [ad\u0131m], m\u0259n\u0259 \u00fcstd\u0259n bir \u015fey almaq ist\u0259rdinizmi?\u201d M\u0259n cavab verdim ki, m\u0259n s\u0259nin atana ox\u015fay\u0131ram? V\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 dedi: \"Bilmir\u0259m, b\u0259lk\u0259. M\u0259n onunla he\u00e7 vaxt tan\u0131\u015f olmam\u0131\u015fam\". Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ona bir ne\u00e7\u0259 \u015firniyyat ald\u0131m.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Redakt\u0259: \"\u00dcstd\u0259 bir \u015fey\" bu kontekstd\u0259 \u0259sas m\u0259kt\u0259b nahar\u0131na \u0259lav\u0259 bir \u015fey dem\u0259kdir, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, dondurma sendvi\u00e7i.<\/p>\n
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\"10 ya\u015f\u0131nda olsayd\u0131n...\"<\/h4>\n
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\u2026Be\u015finci sinif \u015fagirdl\u0259rimd\u0259n b\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u0259hlizd\u0259 basketbol topu il\u0259 oynay\u0131rd\u0131lar. Onlara dedim ki, dayans\u0131nlar. Bir saniy\u0259 dayand\u0131lar, sonra yenid\u0259n oynama\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Sonra onlara dedim: \u201cNiy\u0259 u\u015faqlar topu d\u0259hlizd\u0259 at\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?\u201d Onlardan biri m\u0259n\u0259 baxd\u0131 v\u0259 dedi: \"10 ya\u015f\u0131nda olsayd\u0131n, s\u0259n d\u0259 onu atarsan\".<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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M\u0259n bel\u0259c\u0259... yax\u015f\u0131, b\u0259li. Bu bel\u0259dir.<\/p>\n
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\"Uzun v\u0259 q\u0131sa nisbi anlay\u0131\u015flard\u0131r\"<\/h4>\n
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\u2026M\u0259n birinci sinif \u015fagirdl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259rs deyir\u0259m, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259nim n\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259rim sizinki q\u0259d\u0259r parlaq deyil, amma yen\u0259 d\u0259.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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\u00c7ox vaxt diqq\u0259tsiz olan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131m var idi. Biz dinozavrlar haqq\u0131nda kitab oxuyur v\u0259 birinci sinif kitab\u0131n\u0131n arxas\u0131ndak\u0131 \u00c7OX sad\u0259 suallara cavab verirdik. \u015e\u0259kil bir brachiosaurus idi v\u0259 yazi var idi:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Bu dinozavr\u0131n ayaqlar\u0131 var:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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a) uzun<\/p>\n
b) q\u0131sa<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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O\u011flan bu anda ili\u015fib qald\u0131 v\u0259 ir\u0259li getm\u0259di. Kitabdak\u0131 \u0259n asan sual oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm, lakin b\u0259zi t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r ingilisc\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fa bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, b\u0259lk\u0259 o, sad\u0259c\u0259 s\u00f6zl\u0259ri ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcr dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. T\u0259xmin\u0259n yeddi d\u0259qiq\u0259 sinifd\u0259 g\u0259z\u0259r\u0259k dig\u0259r t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etdikd\u0259n sonra onun yan\u0131na qay\u0131td\u0131m. Kitaba baxd\u0131m v\u0259 onun n\u0259 yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
c) \u201cUzun\u201d v\u0259 \u201cq\u0131sa\u201d nisbi anlay\u0131\u015flar.<\/p>\n
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\u265f M\u0259\u011flub olmaq da q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259dir<\/h2>\n
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\u2026\u0130btidai sinif u\u015faqlar\u0131na \u015fahmatdan d\u0259rs deyirdim.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Yayda \u201c\u015eahmat d\u00fc\u015f\u0259rg\u0259si\u201d ke\u00e7irdim. H\u0259r g\u00fcn 20-40 u\u015faq tam \u201cm\u0259kt\u0259b g\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yan\u0131ma g\u0259l\u0259rdi, amma h\u0259r d\u0259rs \u0259slind\u0259 \u015fahmat d\u0259rsi idi. Bu bir h\u0259ft\u0259 davam etdi.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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\u0130lk g\u00fcn u\u015faqlara dedim ki, yax\u015f\u0131 olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn uduzmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r, bu, \u015fahmat kimi bir oyun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn (x\u00fcsusil\u0259 ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131cda) mahiyy\u0259t etibaril\u0259 do\u011frudur. Onlara dedim ki, \u201c\u015eahmat\u0131 daha yax\u015f\u0131 oynamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 50 oyun uduzmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z\u201d.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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\u2026T\u0259xmin\u0259n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc g\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u0259rg\u0259nin i\u00e7\u0259risin\u0259 girir\u0259m v\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rimd\u0259n birinin, ikinci sinif \u015fagirdinin qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 getdiyini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u0259m v\u0259 ondan ehtiyatla soru\u015furam: \u201c\u015eahmatla nec\u0259s\u0259n?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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O cavab verir ki, \"Yax\u015f\u0131, m\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn oyunlar\u0131 uduzdum, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey qaydas\u0131ndad\u0131r!\"<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Bu yana\u015fma bir \u00e7ox oyunlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn do\u011frudur. \u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n oyunda adi oyun\u00e7unu h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n \u0259la oyun\u00e7udan ay\u0131ran c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 itkil\u0259rinizi t\u0259hlil etm\u0259k v\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 etdiyiniz i\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 obyektiv baxmaq bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259qs\u0259d \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k olmal\u0131d\u0131r v\u0259 q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 yaln\u0131z z\u0259hm\u0259tinizin b\u0259hr\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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\u2026V\u0259 bu ideyan\u0131 u\u015faqlar (v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r) d\u0259rk etm\u0259k \u00c7OX \u00c7\u018fT\u0130ND\u0130R.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Uduzan zaman \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli hiss edirs\u0259n. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, oyun t\u0259rzin s\u0259nin kim oldu\u011funu \u0259ks etdirir. \u018fg\u0259r uduzsan, \u201cuduzan\u201dsan. Bu, daha \u00e7ox u\u015faqlarda olur. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u015fahmatdan daha axmaq hiss etdir\u0259n oyun yoxdur, \u00e7\u00fcnki \u015fahmatda uduzursansa, bu, h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 s\u0259nin g\u00fcnah\u0131nd\u0131r, oyunun \u00f6z\u00fc deyil (t\u0259sad\u00fcfi faktor yoxdur v\u0259 s.).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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\u018fg\u0259r bir insana (u\u015fa\u011fa) uduzma\u011f\u0131n q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259nin bir hiss\u0259si oldu\u011funu ba\u015fa salsan\u0131z, bu, ona bel\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259d\u0259n daha asan sovu\u015fma\u011fa k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259k, n\u0259inki h\u0259r zaman nifr\u0259t ed\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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B\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin ya unutdu\u011fu, ya da etiraf etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259diyi s\u00f6zl\u0259r deyirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
V\u0259 b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 problem onlar\u0131n \"axmaq\" v\u0259 ya \"\u00e7\u0259tin\" olmalar\u0131nda deyil...<\/p>\n
Problem ondad\u0131r ki, he\u00e7 kim onlara h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n qulaq asm\u0131r.<\/p>\n
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\u2753 He\u00e7 u\u015faqdan m\u00fcdrik bir s\u00f6z e\u015fitmisinizmi?<\/p>\n
Bununla maraqlana bil\u0259rsiniz -<\/p>\n